Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Lasting Contentment

January 14, 2014

Weather Report From Heaven: Sunny and bright, with an abundance of light and lots of singing and rejoicing.

Bible Verse of the Day: Philippians 4:4 " Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice."



At the end of the day, I believe what we are all striving for is contentment. Contentment can come in many different forms but at its core it is a deep and unrelenting satisfaction with the way you are living your life. It can be shaken, but not stolen. Money cannot buy contentment.  A bigger house, a new luxury car or a trip to Paris will eventually lose its luster. I know many people who are extremely wealthy and completely devoid of any contentment. On the other hand, I know people who are poor in the eyes of the world, but who have a deep and abiding contentment. I am pretty sure Mother Teresa of Calcutta had an overflowing contentment inside of her, even though she lived her life in conditions that most of us would find appalling. She was the epitome of what the world considers poor, yet she had a richness and contentment to her that most people would pay anything to achieve. Contentment is one of those elusive traits that when people have it, you can’t miss it. When someone is content you can see it in their eyes and almost feel it in their souls. They are living above the fray and their contentment is not circumstantial in the least. You could put anything into their lives or take anything out, and they would likely be exactly the same person, allowing of course for the natural aspects of human emotions to come into consideration. In other words, greater joy and greater suffering are still a part of dealing with events that happen to us during this lifetime on earth. However, their contentment will allow them to always keep a perspective about the things that happen to them. They control their reactions to the things that happen to them, rather being held hostage or controlled by them.

Where does contentment come from? How do we get it? That is the question that most people would love to know the formula to. It seems that people that live their lives as “givers” rather than “takers” have a good start to finding real contentment. The Bible says it is better to give than to receive and I think the notion of unselfishness is a very important aspect of contentment. Certainly when we are focused on helping others who are less fortunate than ourselves, in whatever endeavor we may find ourselves engaged with, we are aligning with the power of the Holy Spirit through Jesus Christ himself, who said he didn’t come to be served, but rather to serve. The Apostle Paul was pretty much the poster child for contentment, able to find a lasting peace even in the midst of his often dire circumstances. In the letter he wrote to the Philippians, he mentions in chapter 4 that “I have learned to be content in whatever the circumstances.” Where did he get that deep contentment from? He goes on to say “I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry. Whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all things through him who gives me strength.” Who is the one that Paul is referring to that gives him strength? It is the Lord, Jesus Christ. Paul’s ability to stay focused on the promises of his eternal destiny, Heaven, allowed him to deal with anything that this world had to throw at him with a deep sense of contentment. Not many people have suffered as many apparent hardships as Paul did. He mentions some of them in 2nd Corinthians 11 “Five times I received from the Jews the forty lashes, minus one. Three times I was beaten with rods, once pelted with stones, three times Shipwrecked.” The list goes on and on. Paul’s life seems like a never ending horror show that could best be named “What could possibly happen next?” Yet he was able to find a deep and unimaginable contentment.

Can we learn from Paul’s trials to help us find contentment in our own lives? I believe we most certainly can. Paul was not focused entirely on the here and now, but on the then and there called Heaven. He knew his destiny, he stayed incredibly focused on his calling and he let no one or no thing steal his inner joy. I imagine he had moments of serious depression and doubt, just like we all do. I imagine he was beyond lonely and tired in his daily struggles, just as we get. He was in physical pain and hungry often. That cannot feel good. He was in constant danger from a multitude of foes who wanted him out of the picture, which probably made it hard for him to ever rest or relax. Sometimes we are dealing with stressful things in our lives that rob us of our sleep and lead to a heavy fatigue. But here’s the thing that Paul did that is also available to all of us; He refused to focus for very long on his problems and instead focused on the solution of the salvation promised to him in Christ Jesus. When you serve a mighty God, your problems seem quite small. When you have no God, or nothing to bring lasting faith, hope and joy into your life, your problems will always be enormous and contentment will be elusive.

I am convinced that lasting happiness or contentment is impossible apart from God. When God is removed from your life, or from a society, the weightlessness and chaos that ensues is impossible for us to strive in. Look at the history of the Jewish people. When they were living faithfully to the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, their land and their existence flourished and prospered. When they turned away from their God, in their own pride thinking that they new a better path, the pain they endured was astronomical. If everything that happens to us in our life is leading to the same dead end, than we are to be pitied more than any creatures that have ever lived on this earth. But I don’t believe that is the case for one second. God’s word tells us that is not the case and my own experiences have reinforced to me that there is indeed a point to all of the experiences we endure on this side of eternity. That is for each of us to learn in our own unique way and on our own unique path. By focusing on the Master and the Creator of our existence, contentment is possible and here’s why: Because God is love. He loves us. We are His children. He loved us before the earth was ever formed and He will continue to love us for all of eternity. It is this simple fact that can lead us to a place of deep and abiding contentment. Bad things happen to good people in this world. I don’t fully understand why. I know that we live in a fallen, sinful world that was corrupted in the Garden of Eden. You don’t believe that, just watch the nightly news any day of the week and ask yourself after almost any story, how could a person do that to another person? I also know that God had a redemption plan that is the greatest love story of all time to save His people from the death that our sin deserved in His righteous eyes. That plan was to send His one and only Son, Jesus, to die on a cross for redemption of our sin debt, which we alone could never pay, so we could be reconciled back to Him for all of eternity. Talk about a great romance novel! The whole Bible is God’s love story for humanity playing out right before our very eyes to save us from our sinfulness and shame. Because He loved us so much that He would stop at nothing to save us and redeem us with an everlasting hope and joy, then yes, contentment is possible on this earth. You just have to know where to look. Keep looking up!